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Confidence And Self Esteem
If you are confident about your abilities, then you have high self-esteem. This is not something you are born with but rather developed and with it, you can be a winner.
But how do you get it? Well, you start to build it up the moment you are born. If they raised you right, you will know what is right from wrong.
One way you will learn about that is to get disapproval sometimes for tasks that were not done properly. You can also get it for doing something that you were not supposed to do but if this was explained properly, you will know that this is something that must never be done. This will enable you to have good decision making skills because there are consequences for everything you do.
So you are confident to take certain risks, your parents will encourage you try things and then be there if things dont work out. This will already teach you a little about your limitations and you will soon learn more of that in the future.
From here, you already get the idea that building your self-esteem is not always about winning. Sometimes you have to lose and face a few setbacks to make you a better person.
In sports, there is such a thing called sportsmanship. This is when you accept that you lost and shake your opponents hand. By being able to acknowledge the achievements of others, you will soon have the courage to try better and maybe next time, the outcome will be different.
Another thing that builds self-esteem is individuality. We are all born different. Some have dark skin while others are lighter. Some are taller while others are shorter. Self-esteem teaches us to accept who we are so we must never wish for things that we dont have.
But are your parents the only ones that will make you feel confident and develop self-esteem? The answer is no because later on, you will go to school so this will also be further developed by your teachers and your friends.
In school, there are rules you need to follow similar to those that are done at home. With your friends, one of the challenges is not giving in to peer pressure but this is not easy since we want to fit in.
With the different people around, you might get confused who to believe. When this happens, you just have to trust your instinct. If you hear something bad, learn to ignore it and only accept what sounds good to your ears.
Confidence and self-esteem go hand in hand because without the other, you will not be able to appreciate who you are or even have the courage to take some risks. Do you have it? That is something you have to answer for yourself but one way you can assess yourself is to write down on a piece of paper your qualities and your accomplishments.
If you have not done that much in your life, it is never too late to start trying. If you need help, get the support of your family and friends. You can even get the help of a specialist who can figure out a plan to help you achieve your dreams which would not be possible without confidence and self-esteem.
BONUS : Confidence in Self Identity
When we fail to give forethought before making our decisions, it often causes us to make poor decisions. We all must stop and look further into the options in order to realize and make better decisions.
We can build confidence when we give forethought before making decisions. The benefits of giving forethought lead us to higher awareness. We are better able to consider ideas or propositions effectively by expanding our awareness. Moreover, when one has foresight it is a prudence of having the aptitude to develop constructive plans. We start planning and anticipating a better life because one takes precaution before opening his mouthpiece to speak.
Taking precaution provides us a safety measure. This preventative measure will insure that we are safeguarded while providing us provisions that expand confidence.
We all make decisions daily. For instance, when we wake up we must choose what to wear for the day. We must chose our hairstyle, what to have for breakfast, what route to take to work, what to do first while at work and the list goes on and on. An entity almost certainly makes around ten or twenty choices before the clock strikes 9 a.m. Most of these decisions are made without a second thought.
If the person had given forethought to the decisions he had to make prior to the timeframe that he had to get moving, thus he would reduce time and stress. How so, well, if this entity would have prepared during the night hours, hed have his clothes ready in the morning, choice of breakfast, hairstyle, and route to take to work, and so much more ready before he woke up. In the morning, hed merely would have to fix his breakfast, put on his clothes and do his hair. He could cut back more time by keeping things simple. A simple hairstyle and casual or business wear is all he needs.
Since an entity must make so many decisions it is critical for that individual to understand what guides his/her especially in the decision making process.
Part of the problem is learned patterns. The major part of the problem however is the fact that many people fall short of completely developing self, thus establishing their own self-identity.
Decisions are often made based on the entitys present emotions, thoughts and feelings. Ones emotional competency is based on the way in which an entity reacts under stressful situations. We can develop emotional competency, which leads us to self-discovery. It is the way in which an entity establishes the capacity to manage particular events and daily activities. Each of us reacts differently when the emotions are interrupted.
When an entity has the desire to achieve a higher plane of emotional strength of mind that individual is striving towards a more positive life, a life that is more satisfying and flourishing.
Consider what would occur if we all made better choices in life. We would all have the aptitude to accomplish our innermost hopes and dreams. An entity must not fear the process of evaluating his or her personal emotional strengths. At some point in time, we must be willing to step back and look at the emotions that determine how we make decisions.
The choices we make dictate our life in many ways. In order to establish self-identity and understand the way the self behaves in society we must cultivate human qualities, such as higher awareness, confidence, self-esteem, and move to give forethought before making any decision. While self-development to establish an identity takes great effort, practice and skill, it is a process we can all complete by taking action today and giving forethought to our necessities.
When we fail to give forethought before making our decisions, it often causes us to make poor decisions. We all must stop and look further into the options in order to realize and make better decisions.
We can build confidence when we give forethought before making decisions. The benefits of giving forethought lead us to higher awareness. We are better able to consider ideas or propositions effectively by expanding our awareness. Moreover, when one has foresight it is a prudence of having the aptitude to develop constructive plans. We start planning and anticipating a better life because one takes precaution before opening his mouthpiece to speak.
Taking precaution provides us a safety measure. This preventative measure will insure that we are safeguarded while providing us provisions that expand confidence.
We all make decisions daily. For instance, when we wake up we must choose what to wear for the day. We must chose our hairstyle, what to have for breakfast, what route to take to work, what to do first while at work and the list goes on and on. An entity almost certainly makes around ten or twenty choices before the clock strikes 9 a.m. Most of these decisions are made without a second thought.
If the person had given forethought to the decisions he had to make prior to the timeframe that he had to get moving, thus he would reduce time and stress. How so, well, if this entity would have prepared during the night hours, hed have his clothes ready in the morning, choice of breakfast, hairstyle, and route to take to work, and so much more ready before he woke up. In the morning, hed merely would have to fix his breakfast, put on his clothes and do his hair. He could cut back more time by keeping things simple. A simple hairstyle and casual or business wear is all he needs.
Since an entity must make so many decisions it is critical for that individual to understand what guides his/her especially in the decision making process.
Part of the problem is learned patterns. The major part of the problem however is the fact that many people fall short of completely developing self, thus establishing their own self-identity.
Decisions are often made based on the entitys present emotions, thoughts and feelings. Ones emotional competency is based on the way in which an entity reacts under stressful situations. We can develop emotional competency, which leads us to self-discovery. It is the way in which an entity establishes the capacity to manage particular events and daily activities. Each of us reacts differently when the emotions are interrupted.
When an entity has the desire to achieve a higher plane of emotional strength of mind that individual is striving towards a more positive life, a life that is more satisfying and flourishing.
Consider what would occur if we all made better choices in life. We would all have the aptitude to accomplish our innermost hopes and dreams. An entity must not fear the process of evaluating his or her personal emotional strengths. At some point in time, we must be willing to step back and look at the emotions that determine how we make decisions.
The choices we make dictate our life in many ways. In order to establish self-identity and understand the way the self behaves in society we must cultivate human qualities, such as higher awareness, confidence, self-esteem, and move to give forethought before making any decision. While self-development to establish an identity takes great effort, practice and skill, it is a process we can all complete by taking action today and giving forethought to our necessities.
