Asian Dating Respect And Honour

Asian Dating - Respect And Honour

Honour and respect are two of the most important elements in Asian culture, and they shouldn't be overlooked when it comes to dating. For instance, traditionally, Asian women are taught at a young age to know their place around men, treat them with respect and accommodate them, while men are taught to protect and provide for the women. Although these traditions have become a faded practice in Western culture, respect still plays an important role in the Asian dating scene.

If you are Asian and are seeking a serious relationship with a man or woman from your ethnic culture, you will need to take into consideration that every move you make could be watched carefully by your partner's family, who may very well act as the third party to your date. With this in mind, here are a few tips you will want to think about when you begin dating:

Make an Impression -Be on your best behaviour. Listen to your date, create casual conversation, and be accommodating and thoughtful.

Treat your Date with Respect - Remember the saying "treat others as you would like to be treated", well this is when it really counts. Be considerate and patient, even if you find the topic of conversation to be of little interest to you. You should acknowledge what is important to your date and respect it.

Give them space - You don't want to come on too strong in the relationship, as this could either scare off your date, or make him or her jump to wrong conclusions. Creating a comfortable dating experience is the best way for you to discover if what you have found is an acquaintance, friend or potential lover.

Every once in a while visit the planet Earth - Be careful not to be mislead into believing that your dating relationship is something more than it is. Remember, not everyone is seeking a long term commitment (which could include you) therefore, before you let your imagination run wild from misinterpretation, make sure you take a realistic look at the relationship that is developing.

Above All have fun - Let's face it, the whole point to dating is about having a good time, and enjoying the other person's company, so don't be afraid to loosen up. Let your personality shine and take pleasure in your dating experiences.

In the end all that should matter when it comes down to dating, is that you and your date enjoy one another's company, are comfortable together, and share similar interests and values. If you find that there is no chemistry forming, it's time to say goodbye, and move on, regardless of how much your family may like him or her. After all, it is you who has to make the choice when it comes to your love life, for only you can determine who truly makes you happy. Therefore, grant yourself the respect and honour of making and standing by your dating decisions.

BONUS : Asian Playboy : Social Circle Pick Up - Wing Rules

Social Circle Pick Up - Wing Rules
Author: Asian Playboy

Let’s talk about Social Circle Pick Up for a second.This isn’t particularly addressed in PUAdom because, for real, a lot of PUAs (Pick Up Artists) don’t pursue active social lives, instead concentrating on improving their Game and occasionally hitting the fool’s mate, one night stand and/or f*ck buddy.

And, of course, if one has read Neil’s “The Game”, you can see how f*cked up you can get without pursuits beyond the Game, having regular friends you can chill with and what not. The rules are very similar to typical wing rules, except it’s your wing- the guy who knows the social circle and has intro’ed you to his friends- who’s calling the shot.

1) YOU DO NOT F*CKING TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB

How much can I f*cking STRESS this sh*t? Maybe you want to talk about it to your friends and impress them with your knowledge. Fine, good for you. But when you’ve been introduced to your buddy’s (and hopefully your wing is just more than a wing to you, but actually a good friend who also happens to have similar goals and skill levels when it comes to women) friends, YOU DO NOT F*CKING TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB.

2) YOU DO NOT GAME UP YOUR BUDDY’S TARGET.

If your buddy has told you which girl is his target (or someone he hooked up with or planning to) YOU DO NOT F*CKING TRY AND GAME HER. Instead, YOUR DUTY- as both a good friend and wing- is to TALK HIM UP to give him SOCIAL PROOF that he’s the f*cking COOLEST GUY IN THE F*CKING WORLD AND YOUR BEST FRIEND. Obviously, however, this isn’t a perfect world and maybe your buddy’s girl isn’t into him. Fine, but A) you still notify him and B) you don’t Game until you have permission or C) It’s SOOOOO f*cking obvious that she’s into you (not your run of the mill IOI, but she’s full up acting AFC on your ass and trying to Game you while ignoring your buddy) and you’ve exhausted options A and B. Then you can go in.

3) COMMUNICATE YOU F*CK HEADS

Tell your buddies which girl is off limits and which one isn’t. You cannot tell them “We’re just friends” and assume that she’s off limits. You actually have to tell them. You know they’re PUAs, respect that they’re going to Game what’s hot. And if you simply indicate there isn’t anything serious going on, THEN DON’T GET F*CKING MAD IF THEY MAKE A PLAY FOR THAT ASS.

4) DO NOT HOG ALL THE GIRLS

You cannot intro your buddies into your social circle and expect them to whack off in the corner. They will be men and Game. Let them know who’s off limits and who isn’t. You can’t have plans on EVERY SINGLE F*CKING GIRL THERE. Why then even f*ck bother introducing your PUA friends other than to show off?

5) INTRODUCE HIM TO YOUR OWN SOCIAL CIRCLES

Do NOT be a f*cking leech. If he’s taken the time and effort to introduce you into his social circle, give a little respect that you’re stepping from a purely wing environment into an actual friendship beyond acquaintenances. Introduce him into your own social circles and follow the rest of the Rules.

6) YOU ARE NOT A F*CKING SARGE ROBOT

Act like an actual human being for once- chill, and have fun. This is what regular people- be they cheesedicks or Naturals- do. They aren’t obsessive compulsive pick up artists, they actually have a life beyond picking up chicks. Seriously. CHILLAX for a second. Enjoy the environment, the ambiance, and the people. You are not on a f*cking stage and you do not have to f*cking perform every time you see a cute chick. VIBE AND HAVE FUN.

7) RESPECT THAT SOMETIMES YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE GIRL WILL DIG YOUR WING

Don’t f*cking freak. Expect it. If they weren’t going to hook up with your PUA buddy, they would still end up hooking up with a cheesedick or a natural. Deal with it. But at the same time, your wing/buddy better not be stepping out of bounds and Gaming your girl, unless she’s definitely not into you but rather him. Then just be a MAN and step aside. You win some. You lose some. That’s life.

8) DON’T PLAY F*CKING MIND GAMES WITH ONE ANOTHER

That’s what chicks do. That’s not what bros do. Now maybe you wing with some Pick Up Artists but aren’t actually FRIENDS with them. That can happen and they want to subtly indicate they are more “alpha” than you. But that’s not what friends are about. Don’t f*ck each other over.

9) DO NOT BE A F*CKING COCK BLOCK

If your buddy is interested in a girl, your job is to SOCIAL PROOF HIM. You do not f*cking cock block him. You do not TOOL him. You do not AMOG him. You show her that you consider him to be the most coolest, alpha guy in the room. It’s a PRIVILEGE that you’re in his circle of friends. Show some respect, appreciation and f*cking FRIENDSHIP.

10) PAY ATTENTION

This is simple SITUATIONAL AWARENESS, people. If you are the introducer, pay attention to your friends as to whether or not they’re having a good time and what not. By inviting him out, you are also accepting responsbility for his enjoyment as well as actions. Don’t put him in a position where he’d like to commit seppuku and slice open his abdomen from sheer boredeom while you do your sh*t. If you are the introducee, pay attention and follow your friend’s lead. You are there by his invitation. Don’t f*ck him over by violating Rule 9. Vibe you f*ckheads. Social circle sarging should be relatively easy because it isn’t a cold approach and you don’t have to be a sarge automaton.

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