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How To Approach Your Crush At The Gym
Every man would like to have a beautiful, sexy
girlfriend with a perfect body, with whom to be
very proud and start the envy of all his friends.
Let's face it: there is no man on the street that
will not look after an athletic body of a
beautiful, attractive lady. But for many of them
this remains only a dream because they don't know
where to meet this kind of woman and how to do it.
The best place to meet a woman with an athletic
body and in a very good shape is gym.
With the current attention being paid to healthy
lifestyles, fitness has become a very important
aspect of life today. That's why more and more
people decided to go to the gym. Let's say that
you are going to the gym for a long time and in
the last days a new interesting girl is passing
over here. She is very attractive and you would
really like to know her better but you don't know
how to approach her.
Approaching a woman successfully is only one of
the most stressful situation a man must face
because you don't know her, how she thinks, what
she likes, and if she is friendly or not. But,
if you make it carefully and know how to do it,
you may have success. You may use these tips to
approach your crush at the gym.
- first and the most important, if you want to be
flirting with, don't wear earphones, because it
will inhibit her approaching you
- find something that you both do at the gym so
you will be able to ask her advice about, or a
machine that you both use, to have what to talk
about
- you may talk to her about gym, sports, regimen,
workout
- best way to start a conversation with her is to
go to some machine near by her and ask if she is
using it or not and just start talking afterwards
- first talk to her as a friend to see if she
notice you
- use deodorant to make sure that you don't smell
bad, to not make a bad impression from the
beginning
- try to catch her eye every time you see her
and smile
- if she smiles you too you may approach her
because she is interested
- pay attention and if she is having trouble with
a machine or accessing an equipment you may offer
your help in order to start a conversation with
her
- you should try to get her phone number, but don'
t look too desperate
- also you may try to bring an iPod with you and
ask her if she knows a certain song
- if you decided to go near her and start a
conversation you must know from the beginning
what to say, so think first and then go
- accost her once she has just finished her set
and ask if you can work with her, to make
alternative exercises
- start to make accidental body contact
- when she is leaving you may say to her goodbye
and ask her when she comes again, then she will
have to talk to you next time she will see you
- you may ask her friendly for a cup of coffee
somewhere near the club, you don't have anything
to lose
- spot her at the gym
- another important aspect is that you have to
look very serious about your workout, so don't
stay and stare at girls; if she see that you are
just fooling around she will notice that you are
going to the gym just to date
Remember that you don't have necessarily to
become a personal trainer or to do yoga classes
to get a beautiful lady which you've seen at the
gym; you just have to take it carefully and know
how to approach her.
BONUS : How To Ask Out A Shy Woman
Dating could be one of the most celebrated events in an individualÂs life. It is that point in time where a man and a woman get to be acquainted with each other and discover each otherÂs weaknesses and strengths.
In fact, some studies revealed that dating, which eventually leads into a relationship, makes people feel better and in good health than those who preferred to be single. That is why almost 90% of the adult population in the U.S. is already married, with the remaining 10% planning to marry someday.
However, even if most of the people would rather engage into dating and wish to marry someday, this does not necessarily mean that dating could be very easy. The truth is dating could be very tricky especially for those who do not know the right strategy in asking women out.
Consequently, most men contend that they are having a hard time asking shy women out. This is because shy women are afraid of the consequences that might happen during their date. The problem with most shy people is that they have higher expectations on finding the right person; hence, they fear that the person is not yet the one and that the date might just turn into a disaster.
Moreover, socialization for every shy woman could be a disaster for her. Mere shaking of hands or simply facing their date is already difficult for them.
So for those who want to ask shy women out, it is important to remember about the common characteristics that these kinds of personality exhibit. Here is a list of some tips that you should remember:
1. Try to know the reasons for her shyness
If you personally know the person, it would be better to do some research from her friends or other acquaintance the possible reason for her shyness. In this way, you will be able to plan the appropriate actions in order to deal with her properly.
There are some women who are just shy because they do not know the other person too well, but once they get long with each other, her shyness eventually fades.
2. Single steps journey are much preferred
The problem with most shy women is that it is difficult to let them open up and loosen a bit. This is sometimes associated with the fact that shy women are afraid of meeting people whom they do not know very well.
Hence, one good way to solve this problem is to try to get close to the person first. However, it does not necessarily mean that once you are acquainted with her, it would be easier for her to open up instantly. The point here is that time will tell when the shy person will open up and reveal something about her life. So the best way is to continue making her feel comfortable and impress her by being reliable and somebody she can trust with.
3. Listen well
Most shy women are initiated to feel at ease when they know that the person they are talking with are listening to whatever they have to say attentively. Hence, it is important to listen to all of her sentiments, her inhibitions, her experiences and make her feel that whatever she has to say, you can understand.
The point here is that people love to talk about themselves, so when a shy woman has already started talking, the best way to get her attention is to listen to her first.
4. Get the conversation going by empathizing with her
It would be better if you can show your empathy by telling her with your own experiences, fear, and inhibitions. In this way, shy women will be able to relate to you, hence, they would be more at ease.
5. Try to be subtle all the time
If you think that you can never initiate her to open up, do not be pushy and pressure her to do something she does not feel like doing. It will only make the matters worse.
All of these are boiled down to the fact that dealing with shy women is never easy, but it is not that complicated at all. The only important thing to consider is to take the personÂs personality all the time. Try to consider her feelings and sentiments.
By the time that she knows you are someone she can talk with and be with without having to fear of anything, chances are, both of you are on your way to a wonderful and hopefully lasting relationship.
Dating could be one of the most celebrated events in an individualÂs life. It is that point in time where a man and a woman get to be acquainted with each other and discover each otherÂs weaknesses and strengths.
In fact, some studies revealed that dating, which eventually leads into a relationship, makes people feel better and in good health than those who preferred to be single. That is why almost 90% of the adult population in the U.S. is already married, with the remaining 10% planning to marry someday.
However, even if most of the people would rather engage into dating and wish to marry someday, this does not necessarily mean that dating could be very easy. The truth is dating could be very tricky especially for those who do not know the right strategy in asking women out.
Consequently, most men contend that they are having a hard time asking shy women out. This is because shy women are afraid of the consequences that might happen during their date. The problem with most shy people is that they have higher expectations on finding the right person; hence, they fear that the person is not yet the one and that the date might just turn into a disaster.
Moreover, socialization for every shy woman could be a disaster for her. Mere shaking of hands or simply facing their date is already difficult for them.
So for those who want to ask shy women out, it is important to remember about the common characteristics that these kinds of personality exhibit. Here is a list of some tips that you should remember:
1. Try to know the reasons for her shyness
If you personally know the person, it would be better to do some research from her friends or other acquaintance the possible reason for her shyness. In this way, you will be able to plan the appropriate actions in order to deal with her properly.
There are some women who are just shy because they do not know the other person too well, but once they get long with each other, her shyness eventually fades.
2. Single steps journey are much preferred
The problem with most shy women is that it is difficult to let them open up and loosen a bit. This is sometimes associated with the fact that shy women are afraid of meeting people whom they do not know very well.
Hence, one good way to solve this problem is to try to get close to the person first. However, it does not necessarily mean that once you are acquainted with her, it would be easier for her to open up instantly. The point here is that time will tell when the shy person will open up and reveal something about her life. So the best way is to continue making her feel comfortable and impress her by being reliable and somebody she can trust with.
3. Listen well
Most shy women are initiated to feel at ease when they know that the person they are talking with are listening to whatever they have to say attentively. Hence, it is important to listen to all of her sentiments, her inhibitions, her experiences and make her feel that whatever she has to say, you can understand.
The point here is that people love to talk about themselves, so when a shy woman has already started talking, the best way to get her attention is to listen to her first.
4. Get the conversation going by empathizing with her
It would be better if you can show your empathy by telling her with your own experiences, fear, and inhibitions. In this way, shy women will be able to relate to you, hence, they would be more at ease.
5. Try to be subtle all the time
If you think that you can never initiate her to open up, do not be pushy and pressure her to do something she does not feel like doing. It will only make the matters worse.
All of these are boiled down to the fact that dealing with shy women is never easy, but it is not that complicated at all. The only important thing to consider is to take the personÂs personality all the time. Try to consider her feelings and sentiments.
By the time that she knows you are someone she can talk with and be with without having to fear of anything, chances are, both of you are on your way to a wonderful and hopefully lasting relationship.
